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Is your West Virginia co-parenting plan all set for summer?

When you filed for divorce in a West Virginia court, you understood that your decision would have a significant impact on your children's lives. However, you also believed you were making a decision with their best interests in mind and were hopeful that you and they would be able to adapt to a new lifestyle in as healthy a manner as possible. You and your ex are still a parenting team, and if you're able to compromise and co-operate, that's great.

Especially during your first post-divorce summer, various issues may arise that spark disagreement between you and your ex. That's why it's always a good idea to know how to tap into local resources to help you address problems that may surface when your children are home from school all summer long.

The children are the central focus

You and your ex may have unresolved issues regarding private matters that took place during your marriage. Overcoming the emotional trauma of divorce is tough. During summer, the more you and your ex focus on what's best for your kids, the better able to cope everyone is likely to be. If you need to talk about past marital issues, set aside a time and place to do so, but try to keep your children's best interests in mind when planning a summer schedule.

Work out the logistics

Summer time can be quite busy for kids. Your children will likely need rides to and from their activities. They'll also need daily supervision if you and your ex both work outside the home. It's helpful to write out a list of needs alongside suggested solutions so both co-parents can review the ideas and come to an agreement. Once it's in writing, you can sign it and seek the court's approval, which would make it an official part of your custody order. 

You're not alone in your struggle

Many West Virginia parents face obstacles when they're testing the waters of a summer co-parenting plan. It's okay to need help, and it's critical to know where to seek support to help you find it. If your kids are struggling emotionally, you may wish to speak to a licensed family counselor. If your spouse refuses to cooperate to work out a summer parenting agreement, you may want to ask the court to intervene. 

Divorce doesn't have to ruin summer vacation

By taking one step at a time and addressing any problems that arise in a peaceful fashion, you and your children will be able to focus on building new summertime memories together. If a problem surfaces that you don't feel you can handle on your own, you can reach out for additional support at any time.

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