Undoubtedly, you have heard both sides of the debate about how divorce affects the children. Some say divorce is emotionally devastating for the young ones ,and others say that is it better to divorce than to subject your children to years of watching their parents unhappily married. Your fear of causing harm to your children may even cause you to remain married when your own well-being is at risk.
Going through a marital dissolution generally is not a pleasant ordeal. After all, both you and your spouse may be at odds about how to handle your divorce issues, such as how to split your property.